7 Spirits Sent to Sever Families: A Christian Perspective

You might be wondering, what is trying to tear families apart today? There are spirits lurking about, seeking to create division and conflict in our homes. These are not just vague challenges; they are real forces that want to disrupt the love and unity within families. Let’s take a closer look at seven specific spirits that aim to sever the bonds that God has intended to be strong and enduring.

1. Spirit of Pride

Pride can create walls between family members. It creeps in quietly. It leads to an inflated sense of self-importance that makes it difficult to listen, empathize, or admit when we’re wrong. The Bible speaks powerfully when it says, “pride goes before destruction” (Proverbs 16:18). When pride takes over, it breeds arrogance and prevents us from acknowledging our own flaws and the value of others, creating conflict and distance in our relationships.

2. Spirit of Anger

Anger can be destructive, turning minor disagreements into major blowouts. It may flare up in a moment but always leaves a lasting impact. Did you know that Ephesians 4:26-27 warns us not to let the sun go down on our anger? When anger festers, it turns into bitterness, making our homes feel like toxic battlefields instead of heavenly havens. We must learn to address our anger quickly, forgiving one another just as Christ forgave us! Addressing anger through healthy communication and reconciliation is essential to healing fractures within the family.

3. Spirit of Perfectionism

The spirit of perfectionism can create unrealistic expectations for both ourselves and our family members. Unfortunately, it transforms our hopeful expectations into heavy burdens and it often leads to frustration when those expectations aren’t met. Colossians 3:13 reminds us to bear with each other and forgive one another—not excluding ourselves—emphasizing that we are all imperfect beings. Striving for excellence is good, but perfectionism can often lead to disappointment, guilt, and feelings of inadequacy in the family setting. Ultimately, perfectionism steals joy and fosters disappointment. We must remind ourselves that we are all beautifully flawed and in need of grace.

4. Spirit of Deception

Let’s not overlook the spirit of deception, which slithers in with lies and half-truths. Without a doubt, trust is the bedrock of every family. Proverbs 12:22 says that lying lips are detestable to the Lord. When families are not built on honesty, the cracks in relationships can widen, creating divides that are hard to mend. We must carry honesty like a lifeline, pulling each other back to safety and connection.

5. Spirit of Lust

And what about the spirit of lust? This spirit doesn’t just play with physical desires; it distorts our hearts and minds, leading us astray from faithful relationships and creates a perverted sense of love. You see, even the simplest desires can become snares if left unchecked. Matthew 5:28 reminds us that even looking with lust is a danger. We must guard our hearts fiercely; we’re called to love deeply and faithfully to protect our families.

6. The Victim Spirit

The Victim spirit loves to whisper lies saying, "Nobody helps you", or “It’s always someone else’s fault”. This mindset can perpetuate cycles of negativity, where family members left feeling powerless and often spiraling into self-pity. It can poison our well-being, making us forget the strength we find in Christ. Philippians 4:13 tells us that we can do all things through Him who strengthens us. When we let go of victimhood, we embrace the Holy Spirit’s empowerment to bring healing and unity in our homes!

7. Spirit of Manipulation

Last but not least, we have the spirit of manipulation. This spirit seeks to twist truths in order to seize control and draw family members into webs of distrust. Ephesians 4:15 encourages us to speak the truth in love, which is crucial for fostering genuine connections. It is when we operate in transparency and honesty that we starve the spirit of manipulation. Let us nurture our families with truth and authenticity, creating bonds that cannot be so easily broken.

So, what can we do about these spirits threatening our families? Recognizing their presence is the first step. With God’s help, we can stand against these forces, close the open doors that allowed these spirits to enter our homes, and cultivate a home filled with love, understanding, and forgiveness. Let's commit to praying for one another, encouraging one another with the word of God, and standing firm in our faith. Each family faces challenges, but by turning to God, our families can flourish! With God at the center, we can overcome any spiritual attack and draw closer together. We will lift our hearts in praise, trusting that when we seek Him, our families will be fortified by His love! I invite you to follow us over the next seven post as we do a deep dive into each of these spirits and seek the Lord for more understanding on how we can overcome them and walk in His victory!